Finding YOUR Yellow Tux


By Melissa S. Miller

Over the past few weeks, I have had the pleasure of reading two fantastic books – Find Your Yellow Tux by Jesse Cole and The High 5 Habit by Mel Robbins for The Miller Law Firm, P.A.’s YouTube channel.  The first book is about creative management; the second book is about self-encouragement and care.

As I sat down to write this blog (a space we typically reserve for an in-depth examination of important legal topics) it occurred to me that the subject matter of each book may be just the advice our clients need during this uncertain time.  Let me explain:

Throughout my near decade as a family law and personal injury attorney, I have seen cases and clients come and go.  It is both a pleasure and a challenge to lead people through what may be the most difficult time in their lives.  Whether you are 20 or 80 years old, going through a divorce or serious personal injury can be gut-wrenching and can turn your life upside down.  The pandemic has wrought enough uncertainty.  Throwing a divorce or serious personal injury on top of an already uncertain world has the potential to put an individual over the edge. 

As an attorney, I can give you all of the legal advice in the world.  What I cannot give you is a belief in yourself and the inner courage to know you will see these difficult times through.  Whether you are going through a difficult case, a major life change or just trying to lose a few pounds before the holidays, life is a struggle and often our worst enemy is staring us in the mirror. 

If you are going through a divorce or personal injury this holiday season (or anytime), do not be your own worst enemy.  As your attorney, I will be there to fight for you throughout the legal process, but I also want for you to cheer for and believe in yourself.  Take the time to read through our website.  At The Miller Law Firm, P.A., we are about more than giving our clients the legal tools and representation they will need to fight through this difficult time.  We want to give you the compassion and encouragement you need to see it through. 

To aid you during this difficult time in your life, we have developed The A.L.E. (Art, Law, and Entertainment Project), which is The Miller Law Firm’s YouTube Channel devoted to an examination of art, music, and television from which you can escape the rigors of your own personal firestorm while also assisting you on your journey to personal development and growth.  Subscribe to this channel so you can hear a positive message each week.  It is through life’s most difficult challenges that we find life’s most important lessons.  I hope you find your yellow tux as you embark on this major life change, and should I have the pleasure and honor to represent you as you face this difficult time, I shall look forward to assisting you every step of the way.

Melissa Miller is a family law and personal injury attorney and partner with The Miller Law Firm, P.A.  To check Ms. Miller’s review of Find Your Yellow Tux by Jesse Cole and The High 5 Habit by Mel Robbins, please subscribe to our YouTube Channel (the A.L.E. Project), which is also available on The Miller Law Firm’s website (